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The Inner Burden of Understanding Everyone but Yourself
Being an understanding person is the worst kind of thing.
Are you the person who is approached to solve everyone’s issues? The one who is always able to find a solution to every situation? Celebrate last year’s wonders because you are now understood. But here’s the twist: Such an understanding person has a negative aspect as well, which is apart from being glorified. Because it has the merit that they think it does, being that it is hard work. It’s downright aggravating, isolating, and emotionally draining.
Let’s put it into perspective. Free users can read here.
What Is The Significance Of Being Understanding?
The trait of understanding others is to be perceived as good or virtuous. It means one possesses qualities of patience and empathy to an extent that it is even ready to suffer from other people’s perspectives, phobias, and cognitions. But what happens when you become so engaged in understanding others that you forget to recognize your own emotions?
This Metal will be Heavy to Wear, Leaving Empathy Behind
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